Tools & Resources
Discover The Secret To Deep, Lasting Intimacy
Research-backed assessments, guided exercises, and expert resources from the authors of The Four Intimacies — Dr. Amy and Roy Clark.
Your Coaches
Meet Roy & Amy
Working together as a husband-wife team, we combine psychology, neuroscience, and faith to help couples experience deep love and extraordinary intimacy.
Roy Clark
Executive Coach & Author
For over 30 years, Roy has been empowering people to find their strength and end their suffering by reconciling their past, embracing the present, and planning for their future.
Dr. Amy Clark
Doctorate in Marriage & Family Counseling
Amy helps clients let go of limiting beliefs, fire their inner critic, and empowers them to create healthy relationships with themselves and others.
Interactive Assessments
Understand Why You Want What You Want
These research-backed assessments help you and your partner uncover the deeper patterns behind your desires, communication styles, and connection needs. Complete an assessment and receive personalized insights directly to your inbox.
The Four Intimacies Assessment
Based on the book by Dr. Amy & Roy Clark
Discover your strengths and growth areas across the four dimensions of intimacy: Verbal, Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual. This assessment helps you understand where you connect deeply and where you can grow closer.
Communication Style Quiz
Understand how you and your partner communicate
Identify your primary communication style and learn how it interacts with your partner's style. Understanding these patterns is the first step to breaking negative cycles.
Intimacy Needs Assessment
Discover what drives your desire for closeness
Understand the 'why' behind your intimacy needs. Based on research from Emily Nagoski, Esther Perel, and David Schnarch, this assessment helps you identify your accelerators and brakes.
Attachment Style Assessment
Based on research by Sue Johnson & John Bowlby
Your attachment style shapes how you connect, communicate, and respond to your partner. Understanding your style helps you break negative patterns and build secure bonds.
Love Language Profile
Inspired by Gary Chapman's research
Discover how you prefer to give and receive love. Understanding your love language — and your partner's — eliminates the guesswork and helps you speak directly to each other's hearts.
Featured Tool
The Four Intimacies Interactive App
A guided interactive experience that takes you through all four dimensions of intimacy — Verbal, Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual — with expert insights and weekly exercises. No download needed — it runs right here in your browser.
Integrated assessment across all four intimacy dimensions
Expert insights from Nagoski, Perel, Schnarch, Gottman & more
Weekly exercises: Morning Ritual, Brakes Audit, Guided Touch
Downloadable Resources
Guides, Worksheets & Workbooks
Practical tools you can use between sessions or on your own. Each resource is designed to deepen your understanding and strengthen your connection.
Mission & Vision Workbook
workbookA comprehensive couples workbook to clarify your shared dreams, core values, and character strengths. Includes guided exercises for hopes and dreams, values identification, and action planning.
Download FreeCommunication Conversation Starters
worksheet50 thoughtful conversation prompts designed to deepen your verbal and emotional intimacy. Perfect for date nights, road trips, or quiet evenings at home.
Download FreeWeekly Intimacy Checklist
checklistA practical weekly checklist covering all four intimacies. Track your progress and ensure you're nurturing every dimension of your connection.
Download FreeConflict Resolution Roadmap
guideA step-by-step guide for navigating disagreements with grace. Based on Gottman's research and the Four Intimacies framework, this roadmap turns conflict into connection.
Download FreeVideo Library
Watch & Learn Together
Educational videos from Roy and Amy covering communication, intimacy, attachment, and more. Watch together as a couple for the best experience.
Our Book
The Four Intimacies
Unlocking the Love You Desire
Working together as a husband-wife team, Dr. Amy and Roy Clark have dedicated their lives to helping couples experience deep love and extraordinary intimacy. This book reveals the four dimensions of intimacy — Verbal, Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual — and provides a practical roadmap for couples who want more than just "getting by."
The
Four
Intimacies
Unlocking the Love
You Desire
Dr. Amy and Roy Clark
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Intimacy is at our core desire
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Ready to Transform Your Relationship?
With 30 years of combined experience, Dr. Amy and Roy Clark have helped hundreds of couples move from crisis to extraordinary love. Your journey starts with a free 15-minute consultation.
